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The topic of the last few articles here on So She Reads has brought these little oddments of hospitality into my life.

The above paragraphs are written by Henri Nouwen
Read this excellent article about hospitality on Road Map to Morning. I love the quote the author used about a ‘holy inconvenience.’
“In Spanish, attention is something you “lend”, because you kind of want it back. In French you “make” it, because it’s not there if you don’t. In English you “pay” it, because it’s valuable. And in German you “gift” it, because it really is a present.
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A Word for Autumn and an invitation to enjoy your celery by A. A. Milne. Don’t misss this, it’s great! Milne is the author of Winnie the Pooh but this is not about him.

A Symbol of Hospitality
Pineapples were hung at entrances to Caribbean villages. When the trade ships’ captians came to trade with the natives, the warm welcome and the image of the pineapple merged.
Back in the new colonies on the American coast, the pineapple became a symbol of hospitality. Newly returned sea captains put a pineapple on the fence post or step when they returned home to tell people they had a safe journey. It was an invitation to the townspeople to stop in for refreshments and to hear tales of time at sea.
Pineapple, the king of fruit, is still used today to crown large displays of food. You can find tablecloths, napkins, doormats and even bedposts adorned with pineapple motifs.
French Onion Beef Sliders are something I served a couple times this month and they were met with enthusiasm. Please excuse the language in the post preceeding the recipe or better yet, just click on jump to recipe!

(picture above from Wikipedia)
Grace for Meals
The Christian Hymnal has five little songs as grace for meals. Three of them I have sung often and one I have never heard anyone sing. I’m curious if any of my readers know Christian Hymnal #649. I would love to hear it.
Sarah Josepha Hale, pictured above, wrote Our Father in Heaven, the song we sing often at mealtime. She was born in 1788 in New Hampshire, and was taught more schooling than the average girl in her day. She married a lawyer, David Hale, who died after nine years of marriage, leaving Mrs. Hale with five children to support. She turned to writing as a form of income. During this time she wrote Mary Had a Little Lamb, her most recognized poem.
In 1827 she wrote a novel Northwood: Life North and South, becoming the first novelist to write about slavery as well as the first American woman novelist.
She became editor of Godey’s Lady’s Book in 1837, a widely circulated magazine. Her columns covered everything women of her day were interested in, from women’s education, to child rearing, to slavery. She used that platform to raise money to preserve George Washington’s home and the Bunker Hill Monument. She did not support the women’s suffrage movement because she believed participation in politics would limit influence at home.
Through Mrs. Hale’s writings, mainly letters to the president and politicians, she convinced them of the need for a national Thanksgiving holiday. In 1863, during the civil war, President Lincoln signed “A National Day of Thanksgiving and Praise.”
She died in 1877 at the age of 92.
The story of Grace by Eric Enstrom I looked for a picture that I’m sure you all have seen, but everything I found was copyrighted, so click the link to see it and read the story of how it came to be.

Enjoy the fall color today! –Liz


4 responses to “So She Reads Collection: An Invitation”
CH#649! I first heard it sung years ago when visiting a monastery for Sunday vespers and was surprised to find it later in my church hymnal.. years later we sang it at an informal song service in church just to try it out
Marsha, thanks for that story! I wish I had been there to try to join in!
The piece about inconvenient hospitality really resonated with me. So did Milne’s piece–I’m not that into celery, but I do let go of summer reluctantly until I remember autumn has its joys, too. And I have a copy of that print of the older man praying. I never knew the name of it. It was neat to read the story behind it. I have a companion piece with an older woman praying as well.
Hi Barbara Harper, Thank you for those connections. I wouldn’t think there was much of interest to say about celery either, but Milne made it sound delectable and a little silly at the same time.